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You might be lying more than is healthy for you. Most people think lying is harmless, just social grease or a shortcut through conflict. I used to think that too. But the real damage caused by lying isn’t moral. It’s structural. It’s what it does to your internal model of reality. To be a convincing liar you have to believe your own stories. And the moment you start believing them, you compromise the part of your mind that knows what’s real. That internal compass, the one that helps you navigate the world and navigate yourself, begins to distort. Hannah Arendt warned that when lies replace truth, our ability to orient ourselves collapses. That’s the real danger. Lying feels like control, but over time it becomes the opposite. You create a false world, and then that false world starts controlling you. If you’ve been lying long enough, you’ve already split yourself in two: the part of you that knows the truth and the part of you performing the lie. Carl Jung would say the performer becomes a shadow self you start living inside. And if you inhabit that character long enough, you confuse their desires for your own. Eventually the performance becomes the identity, and your entire life bends around maintaining it. The prescription is simple, but brutal. Tell the truth again. But be warned. Truth is expensive. David Foster Wallace said the truth will set you free, but not until it is finished with you. Telling the truth means killing the false self, and that death is painful because you’ve been identifying with that character for years. You’ve invested in them. You’ve protected them. You’ve let them run your life. Worse, many of your relationships have bonded not with you, but with the liar, with the persona. And when you kill that persona, people will grieve it. Some will resent you. Some will leave. Some will tell you you’re not yourself anymore without realizing they never actually knew you in the first place. People love the lie. It’s easier to love. Cleaner. More convenient. When you start telling the truth, don’t expect applause. Expect resistance. Expect disappointment. Expect people to prefer the mask you wore over the face you’re finally revealing. But if you stay the course, something else happens. The world becomes solid again. Your mind aligns with reality. Your inner compass recalibrates. And you stop living as a character in a story you never meant to write. You come back to yourself.
2025-11-22 14:36:08 from 1 relay(s) 51 replies ↓
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Beautifully said. Thanks HODL. Reminds me of a Jordan Peterson quote too.. “If you say the truth and nothing else, you will have an immense adventure as a consequence. You will not know what is going to happen to you, but you have to let go of clinging to the outcome. You have to let go. The truth will reveal the world the way it is intended to be revealed. The consequence for you will be that you will have the adventure of your life. The other part of that ethos - which makes perfect sense to me and I cannot see how it can be any other way - is that whatever makes itself manifest as a consequence of the truth is the best possible reality that could be manifest, even if you cannot see it.”
2025-11-22 14:42:07 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
A bit ironic when lying to others morphs into lying to yourself. It'll be easier for others to spot the lies and get through them than for the one who distorted the truth.
2025-11-22 14:44:01 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
God lied to Adam and Eve in Genesis. You think you're better than God? Have you been reading Sam Harris? Radical sincerity is what people with "fuck you" money do when they feel like they can be their true selves which invariably turns out to be a HORSE'S ASS.
2025-11-22 14:54:26 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
“The truth will set you free, but not until it is done with you” nostr:nevent1qqsft8jmz4y8ftyj4rxkvzvcktak4w6w7s2zra7y0pgtur5xuc6uagspzemhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgafcvqt
2025-11-22 14:55:13 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
From my personal experience, lying can also literally distort your body posture. You can make yourself “bent out of shape”, or “bend over backwards”, or “crooked” in attempts to please others with your lies. To face and confront the truth of reality allows one’s posture to be unconfined and free. The facia is the decentralized network of the body.
2025-11-22 14:59:23 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
What you say matters. Every word said is like a spell and the first one to be under it's effect is you. Never lie.
2025-11-22 15:12:57 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Ultra hard mode is when you didn’t lie to yourself but others raised you within a web of lies. A friend of mine grew up with her struggling mum becoming part in Jehova witness. All siblings are fucked to some degree. Your metaphor of the compass sparks an image in my head of them being stranded on ground with magnetic anomalies beneath them. Every move they make betraying them somehow. What do you do? Stand still? Wait for help? Just run in each direction far enough? So grateful for my upbringing
2025-11-22 15:21:16 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
Great essay, and I don't really disagree, but some examples or anecdotes might be helpful. What kind of lies are we talking about? Telling a 200 pound women that she's beautiful? Misrepresentations on a resume? Not providing full transparency to government agencies? Claiming you read the terms and conditions? Different lies have different impacts.
2025-11-22 15:26:33 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 2 replies ↓ Reply
Man do I like the profound Hodl! Wise words out there But is it just me or I also see in you two personas? The profound, wise father and the somewhat crazy and explosive you’re not stacking hard enough?
2025-11-22 15:44:27 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
I would say the big one is presenting a false version of yourself to friends and family. Lying about a covid vaccine in order to not put poison in your body doesn’t fall under my definition of self destructive. Though if you’re in a position where you have to lie about it in order to survive maybe it’s better to tell the truth about not taking it and let tha truth reshape your world.
2025-11-22 16:45:31 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Agreed, lying is corrosive, and when the bill arrives, which it eventually will, it can be much more than expected. Like Anon, I do wonder about the exceptions. Vaccine status is one, another would be using a fake name at bitcoin events (assuming you're a Nostr nym), it might buy you safety, but may also impact your ability to connect.
2025-11-22 18:10:03 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Yeah. Everyone’s compass is uniquely broken , therefore I gave up on giving people directions. Your messages act more like a beacon signal which allow for everyone walking a unique path. I like that a lot.
2025-11-22 18:24:09 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
When you start telling following TRUTHS, don’t expect applause. Expect resistance. Expect disappointment. Expect people to prefer the mask you wore over the face you’re finally revealing. - Shitcoin core devs are either compromised/incompetent - Shitcoin core FORCED op_return change on plebs since there wasn't major support for this change. - BIP444 is the only viable solution at the moment which can get us out of shitcoin core tyranny and by not supporting it, things could get more worse in the future by upgrades like Cluster (fuck) mempool and Ghey Script Restoration. -Majority of simpfluencers consider spam debate a DrAmA because some of them might have either some monetary incentive to not talk about it or they are friends with some spammers/spam apologists/shitcoin core devs. SUPPORT BIP444...!!! RUG THE SPAMMERS...!!! END THE SHITCOIN CORE...!!! Don't fear these simpfluencers because if we let them do what they are doing, bitcoin would likely become more permissionless (inefficient) data storage than permissionless money. nostr:nevent1qvzqqqqqqypzqxh7p36w84mcf6af8f0rlf255mhtqxfg6ynnnt5t5jpj0p5q3cmdqqsft8jmz4y8ftyj4rxkvzvcktak4w6w7s2zra7y0pgtur5xuc6uags06tfs7
2025-11-22 18:39:37 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 2 replies ↓ Reply
To the degree that you are honest with yourself, is the degree to which you can be honest with others. To the degree that you are honest with yourself and others, is the degree to which you can live in alignment with the universe and, more broadly, God.
2025-11-22 19:06:24 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
Our words are far more powerful than people realise. Words expressed are also more powerful than those that are held in your mind & thoughts. To hold a belief & express something in contrast with that belief causes an rift within you, a seperation. To be free is to be integrated & aligned as a sovereign being. You cannot be free while you are lying or wearing the heavy mask of social conformity. From birth we are convinced than we are less than perfect. That we have sinned & need to redeem ourselves in the eyes of others. We try to convince ourselves & others that we are not selfish. That we put others needs above our own. This lie was hidden amongst all the other bullshit I thought was important to hide from people. The world is a mirror that reflects the projections that you place on it. It doesn't argue with you, it simply complies with evidence to support your beliefs. One must be very careful in making agreements about the nature of things because they have a very real impact on your experience. The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. 💚🫂
2025-11-22 20:39:57 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 3 replies ↓ Reply
Where people most often get stuck with teaming up - you gotta understand when if the time to move on. Finding truths changes people and team dynamics. So you gotta accept that, if you'll surf towards truth faster, with others. There is already a cost to a benefit.
2025-11-22 21:45:31 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
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2025-11-23 09:24:14 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
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2025-11-23 09:24:18 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply
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2025-11-23 11:06:47 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
I've worked in tech start-ups most of my career, and this is a rarely talked about conditions that I have seen emerge in non-technical founders. It starts with "fake it till you make it" which is somewhat necessary for your CEO to do in the early days. Then they start believing their own jazz hands are magical. And before you know it, their grip on reality starts slipping. You notice them lying when it isn't necessary or even advantageous to do so. And as trust evaporates, they become paranoid, controlling, and their decisions become increasingly irrational. Founder's syndrome. It's real, and it all starts with lies.
2025-11-23 13:36:22 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
The biggest lesson I took from that was that your heart always knows what's best for you. Ignore its protests & prods at your own peril. I've always relied on my mind to find a path forward but I'm realising that my greatest power has always come from my heart. That's the lesson I want to pass on to my kids. I find it pretty ironic that we gain wisdom once we've lost most of our influence on our children. We'll meet F2F one day.
2025-11-23 19:49:50 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent 1 replies ↓ Reply
Related you should look up this dude who decided to live and maybe coined “radical honesty” (wasn’t without its problems haha)
2025-11-24 17:52:30 from 1 relay(s) ↑ Parent Reply